Our lives are created by the decisions we make, and the quality of those decisions determines the quality of lives we live. So many of us go looking for the love we never had growing up that we end up in conditional relationships. We attract the wrong partner when we are seeking love from anything and anyone outside ourselves. This can only result in an unhappy relationship. If you seem to attract the wrong partner and have bad relationships; it’s time to be independent of a significant other, depend on yourself, and to break free from bad company. Independent singles are able to live their lives without a significant other and are happy being single by embracing the values of the single life.